Well, after reading the little nugget of news below, you'll understand why it trumps all QOTWs!!
Yesterday afternoon, I sent the kids outside to play - it was a gorgeous 88 degrees. They needed the sunshine and Clare and I needed the quiet time. I could hear the giggling - not fighting - and that totally should've set off the alarm bells.
After about 10 minutes, the giggling turned into full-fledged belly laughs and I went to investigate. There is nothing that could've prepared my eyes for what I saw flash before my eyes (keyword here is "flash"). Yeppers, all three of 'em were naked as jaybirds. Fortunately, I had a magazine to hold in front of my face while I collected myself.
"AHEM...(totally not stern face, but good attempt at stern voice)...I want the three of you in the house RIGHT NOW. Get your clothes and move it!"
More giggles.
More magazine holding in front of face.
Better attempt at stern voice. I think it was convincing, because they moved like ducks to bread.
What parenting book prepares you for that sight? Your three kids merrily climbing atop the playscape for the ENTIRE neighborhood to see their white hineys, gleefully sliding down the slide. Maybe I should write a book...
Who needs playdates when they can dream up this stuff amongst themselves??
Make it a great weekend folks. We're off to Friday night's Stations of the Cross and Will's last basketball game - very sad about that - for real. I just might get it together and get pictures of nephew Alex's first birthday posted, which happened like a month ago now?!
Friday, February 27, 2009
Thursday, February 26, 2009
For real?
We have this HUGE, and I'm talking ALL CAPS folks, sign on the window next to our front door that says...
PLEASE KNOCK
That's it. Not mean, not unclear, pretty durn straightforward. Can anyone tell me why the guy who came to fix my washing machine clearly can't read? Rang that doorbell like a pro 10 minutes before naptime was finito. Scratch that, his little trigger finger successfully ended that little slice of heaven.
:::sigh:::
PLEASE KNOCK
That's it. Not mean, not unclear, pretty durn straightforward. Can anyone tell me why the guy who came to fix my washing machine clearly can't read? Rang that doorbell like a pro 10 minutes before naptime was finito. Scratch that, his little trigger finger successfully ended that little slice of heaven.
:::sigh:::
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Top Ten: Make it Count
Ash Wednesday is finally here. I know this because I now have ashes on my shirt sleeve, pants, van door, front window and smeared all over my childrens' lovely little heads.
Mass was fabulous - we joined Will at the school Mass this morning. I always chuckle a little at the kids checking each other's ashes out. "Hey, yours is smeared." "Mine's already coming off!" "You can hardly see yours." And on and on.
So, looking for a way to make Lent well, LENT? Here's a few ideas. Some are mine, some I stole - all are good bull.
TOP TEN: MAKING LENT COUNT
1. Fill a grocery sack for the local food pantry. We did it this morning and it cost us like an extra $8 bucks. The kids will help me deliver the goodies at the food bank on Thursday. We should be doing that every month.
2. Sign up to be an organ donor - and let those you love know about your choice.
3. Make Sunday a day of rest. Don't make other people work on this holy day. That's right, no filling up your car with gas, no runs to the grocery store or to Lowe's for that home improvement project. Go outside, hit some balls with your kids or stay inside and color some masterpieces.
4. Establish a family game night once a week.
5. Don't eat out. And, yes, a Route 44 Vanilla DP from Sonic DOES count...even if a friend picks it up for you :-)
6. Attend Stations of the Cross on a Friday night at your local parish.
7. Turn off the TV one night a week...better yet, cancel cable. Amazingly, we did this for several years when we lived in Indy. It was good stuff, believe it or not. We found that we filled that time with things that were a lot more meaningful.
8. Send a handwritten card to friend or family member. No, the inbox on facebook does NOT count. Scott calls this the "ministry of the unexpected note." Think about the last time you got a card in the mail for no reason at all, no special occasion, no birthday. Somebody sent you a card because they loved you and wanted you to know. Sa-weet, wasn't it? I bet you smiled, a lot, that day. Go do that for somebody else.
9. If you can actually do #7, maybe you can jump on the bikes (or in my case, push the double stroller) on a walk with the family. A little exercise, a little talking with the hubby and some fresh air for the kiddos. Win-win-win.
10. Research some local charities and make a difference in one of them. Maybe you can give some of your treasure, or maybe you can attend an event or serve them in another way. Ask your kids what they care about and maybe they'll come up with something they want to support.
Bottom line? Don't make this Lent about you...make it about glorifying someone else for a change. We could all do a little more of that.
Mass was fabulous - we joined Will at the school Mass this morning. I always chuckle a little at the kids checking each other's ashes out. "Hey, yours is smeared." "Mine's already coming off!" "You can hardly see yours." And on and on.
So, looking for a way to make Lent well, LENT? Here's a few ideas. Some are mine, some I stole - all are good bull.
TOP TEN: MAKING LENT COUNT
1. Fill a grocery sack for the local food pantry. We did it this morning and it cost us like an extra $8 bucks. The kids will help me deliver the goodies at the food bank on Thursday. We should be doing that every month.
2. Sign up to be an organ donor - and let those you love know about your choice.
3. Make Sunday a day of rest. Don't make other people work on this holy day. That's right, no filling up your car with gas, no runs to the grocery store or to Lowe's for that home improvement project. Go outside, hit some balls with your kids or stay inside and color some masterpieces.
4. Establish a family game night once a week.
5. Don't eat out. And, yes, a Route 44 Vanilla DP from Sonic DOES count...even if a friend picks it up for you :-)
6. Attend Stations of the Cross on a Friday night at your local parish.
7. Turn off the TV one night a week...better yet, cancel cable. Amazingly, we did this for several years when we lived in Indy. It was good stuff, believe it or not. We found that we filled that time with things that were a lot more meaningful.
8. Send a handwritten card to friend or family member. No, the inbox on facebook does NOT count. Scott calls this the "ministry of the unexpected note." Think about the last time you got a card in the mail for no reason at all, no special occasion, no birthday. Somebody sent you a card because they loved you and wanted you to know. Sa-weet, wasn't it? I bet you smiled, a lot, that day. Go do that for somebody else.
9. If you can actually do #7, maybe you can jump on the bikes (or in my case, push the double stroller) on a walk with the family. A little exercise, a little talking with the hubby and some fresh air for the kiddos. Win-win-win.
10. Research some local charities and make a difference in one of them. Maybe you can give some of your treasure, or maybe you can attend an event or serve them in another way. Ask your kids what they care about and maybe they'll come up with something they want to support.
Bottom line? Don't make this Lent about you...make it about glorifying someone else for a change. We could all do a little more of that.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
FAT Tuesday
Yup, that's right...Lent is right around the evening corner.
I don't know about you, but I'm feeling a little fat these days, not physically, but in just about every other way. Loaded down with lots of "to-do's", a full DVR, an office that needs a major cleanout, kids activities running out my ears, not enough time to workout, tons of freelance work and not enough time to spend with Scott.
Lent? Bring it.
For tomorrow, we'll be doused with ashes to remind us that from ashes we were created and to ashes we will return. But during that time, just what are we doing to give our lives purpose, to give Glory to our Maker?
If you're a practicing Catholic, you know that this season is about fasting, alms giving and prayer. Even if you're not, I have a sneaking suspicion that you'd like to take a deep breath, refocus and prepare your heart for the joy of Easter.
We should be fasting from the things that interfere with our holy relationship with God...not just the fasting from chocolate or cokes, my friends. I'm talking about the biggies. What are your vices that keep you from holiness? Too much on the DVR, too much internet (i.e. facebook and twitter), too much yelling, not enough repentance? Whatever it is, take a long hard look and make your fast worth the sacrifice.
Giving of our time, talent and treasure through alms giving is something we hear about every Sunday at Mass. But Lent gives us the excuse to actually do it. I have some ideas, but you'll have to tune in tomorrow for those.
Prayer. Right, like I have time to do that. Well, that's actually the story I gave the priest a few years ago during confession. Told him I was stressing out and absolutely could not find 30 minutes to offer up to God. Pathetic and self-centered - yes - I'm raising my hand. You know what his reply was? "Kathryn, you gotta stop praying like a nun and pray like a mom. Own your vocation. God called you to be a mom, so find the little moments during the day to have a relationship with God." Huh, those priests do know a thing or two about spirituality. So, I took his advice. I stopped stressing over finding the right Bible study or the the 30-minutes of reflective reading. Instead, I offer up a load of laundry for my kids. I say a prayer when I get really stressed out and want to lose it...I ask God to give me guidance. We play Christian music in the car and the kids sing along. When we hear sirens, we pray for protection of those hurt and those helping them. There's lots of things to do...and as Mother Teresa says, all those little things turn into something great.
So, here's to feeling fat and looking forward to the diet for the next 40 days...and beyond. It's going to be a fantastic Lent. I can feel it. Who's in?
I don't know about you, but I'm feeling a little fat these days, not physically, but in just about every other way. Loaded down with lots of "to-do's", a full DVR, an office that needs a major cleanout, kids activities running out my ears, not enough time to workout, tons of freelance work and not enough time to spend with Scott.
Lent? Bring it.
For tomorrow, we'll be doused with ashes to remind us that from ashes we were created and to ashes we will return. But during that time, just what are we doing to give our lives purpose, to give Glory to our Maker?
If you're a practicing Catholic, you know that this season is about fasting, alms giving and prayer. Even if you're not, I have a sneaking suspicion that you'd like to take a deep breath, refocus and prepare your heart for the joy of Easter.
We should be fasting from the things that interfere with our holy relationship with God...not just the fasting from chocolate or cokes, my friends. I'm talking about the biggies. What are your vices that keep you from holiness? Too much on the DVR, too much internet (i.e. facebook and twitter), too much yelling, not enough repentance? Whatever it is, take a long hard look and make your fast worth the sacrifice.
Giving of our time, talent and treasure through alms giving is something we hear about every Sunday at Mass. But Lent gives us the excuse to actually do it. I have some ideas, but you'll have to tune in tomorrow for those.
Prayer. Right, like I have time to do that. Well, that's actually the story I gave the priest a few years ago during confession. Told him I was stressing out and absolutely could not find 30 minutes to offer up to God. Pathetic and self-centered - yes - I'm raising my hand. You know what his reply was? "Kathryn, you gotta stop praying like a nun and pray like a mom. Own your vocation. God called you to be a mom, so find the little moments during the day to have a relationship with God." Huh, those priests do know a thing or two about spirituality. So, I took his advice. I stopped stressing over finding the right Bible study or the the 30-minutes of reflective reading. Instead, I offer up a load of laundry for my kids. I say a prayer when I get really stressed out and want to lose it...I ask God to give me guidance. We play Christian music in the car and the kids sing along. When we hear sirens, we pray for protection of those hurt and those helping them. There's lots of things to do...and as Mother Teresa says, all those little things turn into something great.
So, here's to feeling fat and looking forward to the diet for the next 40 days...and beyond. It's going to be a fantastic Lent. I can feel it. Who's in?
Friday, February 20, 2009
QOTW: February 20, 2009
"Dad, can I give up school for Lent?"
Will, at breakfast one morning.
"Man, I have GOT to take some weight off."
Will, after learning he weighed 61 pounds.
"I am your MOM, not the MAID."
Kathryn, while asking (nicely, of course) Will to pick up his room.
"Well, they kinda sound alike."
Will's response.
Yes, it was a big quote week for Master Will. Some funny, others notsomuch. We're off to basketball and a church family event this weekend...and we're madly dashing around getting ready for our trip to Europe! It's hard to believe that Lent, yes you read correctly, is just around the corner. It's one of our favorite times of year and this year we plan to do even more to prepare our hearts and our minds for a fantastic Easter. Make it a great weekend everybody!
Will, at breakfast one morning.
"Man, I have GOT to take some weight off."
Will, after learning he weighed 61 pounds.
"I am your MOM, not the MAID."
Kathryn, while asking (nicely, of course) Will to pick up his room.
"Well, they kinda sound alike."
Will's response.
Yes, it was a big quote week for Master Will. Some funny, others notsomuch. We're off to basketball and a church family event this weekend...and we're madly dashing around getting ready for our trip to Europe! It's hard to believe that Lent, yes you read correctly, is just around the corner. It's one of our favorite times of year and this year we plan to do even more to prepare our hearts and our minds for a fantastic Easter. Make it a great weekend everybody!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Lost in translation?
So, Speaker Pelosi briefly met with the Pope yesterday. From the sounds of the Vatican-issued communique and her office's statement...I think something got lost in translation?
As proud as she was to show off those beloved photos of her children and grandchildren, may she be humbled to learn that ALL children are a gift and all aspects of life should be sacred, not discarded or shoved in a nursing home corner to be forgotten.
From the Vatican Information Service:
A JUST SYSTEM OF LAWS CAPABLE OF PROTECTING HUMAN LIFE
VATICAN CITY, 18 FEB 2009 (VIS) - The Holy See Press Office released the following communique at midday today:
"Following the general audience the Holy Father briefly greeted Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the United States House of Representatives, together with her entourage.
"His Holiness took the opportunity to speak of the requirements of the natural moral law and the Church's consistent teaching on the dignity of human life from conception to natural death which enjoin all Catholics, and especially legislators, jurists and those responsible for the common good of society, to work in co-operation with all men and women of good will in creating a just system of laws capable of protecting human life at all stages of its development".
From Speaker Pelosi's office:
"It is with great joy that my husband, Paul, and I met with His Holiness Pope Benedict XVI today.
In our conversation, I had the opportunity to praise the church’s leadership in fighting poverty, hunger and global warming, as well as the Holy Father’s dedication to religious freedom and his upcoming trip and message to Israel.
I was proud to show His Holiness a photograph of my family’s papal visit in the 1950s, as well as a recent picture of our children and grandchildren.”
As proud as she was to show off those beloved photos of her children and grandchildren, may she be humbled to learn that ALL children are a gift and all aspects of life should be sacred, not discarded or shoved in a nursing home corner to be forgotten.
From the Vatican Information Service:
A JUST SYSTEM OF LAWS CAPABLE OF PROTECTING HUMAN LIFE
VATICAN CITY, 18 FEB 2009 (VIS) - The Holy See Press Office released the following communique at midday today:
"Following the general audience the Holy Father briefly greeted Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the United States House of Representatives, together with her entourage.
"His Holiness took the opportunity to speak of the requirements of the natural moral law and the Church's consistent teaching on the dignity of human life from conception to natural death which enjoin all Catholics, and especially legislators, jurists and those responsible for the common good of society, to work in co-operation with all men and women of good will in creating a just system of laws capable of protecting human life at all stages of its development".
From Speaker Pelosi's office:
"It is with great joy that my husband, Paul, and I met with His Holiness Pope Benedict XVI today.
In our conversation, I had the opportunity to praise the church’s leadership in fighting poverty, hunger and global warming, as well as the Holy Father’s dedication to religious freedom and his upcoming trip and message to Israel.
I was proud to show His Holiness a photograph of my family’s papal visit in the 1950s, as well as a recent picture of our children and grandchildren.”
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Top Ten: Travel Destinations
Oh, how we love to travel. We got bit by the overseas bug back in 2000, on our first trip to Italy. There was something quite enchanting and exciting about seeing how people in another culture live. We even met some dear friends in Rome and have stayed in touch. They are us...just a few thousand miles away, with very fabulous Italian accents.
We're getting ready to make another trek to Europe (France this time!!) and it's gotten us excited all over again. So, what's your destination station? Here's mine!
TOP TEN: TRAVEL DESTINATIONS
1. The Holy Land. We've already been to Aggieland...I'm talking about the "other" holyland. My parents went several years back and that got Scott and I thinking. To see the Bible come alive would be just, well, amazing.
2. Greece. I'm a bit of a history buff (compliments of my history teacher Mom) and Greece just oozes that stuff. Someday.
3. Ireland/Scotland/England. My family roots are part English, so going there would be a great way to connect to my ancestry.
4. China. After watching the Olympics (all 20+ days), I became intrigued about this country that has so much history, so much tradition. And, who wouldn't want to see the Great Wall of China?
5. Russia. Or, if you're a child of the 80s, the USSR. I know they're a land of sub-zero winters, great gymnasts and the KGB - but I would love to discover more. Much of what happens in Russia seems to be such a secret, but we've visited with folks who have been and their stories are amazing.
6. Argentina. Growing up in the Texas panhandle, we had some family friends from Argentina. They spoke about their homeland with such affection that it made an impact on me as a kid. And, that history factor has me wanting to visit.
7. Germany. While I worked at FFA, we had a soft-spoken speaker, Gerda Klein, who reflected on her time in a concentration camp. It was life-changing to hear her witness. It doesn't seem possible that humanity can be that cruel, but then I think of Rwanda and Darfur and know differently. My great-grandmother was a good German woman and I often wonder how our family might have been affected had we been in Germany then.
8. Switzerland. Ah, the land of peacemakers, great watches and stellar snow skiing. Matt Lauer went there on one of his "Where in the world is Matt Lauer" and I've been intrigued ever since.
9. Australia. Oh my, the land down under. Scott and I were all set to go there for the honeymoon and then realized because of the Olympics going on at the same time, all flights headed that direction were booked. Major bummer. We're going to get there, that's a promise.
10. Egypt. Talk about some serious history; we're talking B.C. people. Doesn't that just amaze you? B.C. I'd probably have to take my own stash of food. As willing as I am to jump on a plane, the thought of diving into food that takes a leap of faith...well, let's just say I'm not quite as adventurous.
We're getting ready to make another trek to Europe (France this time!!) and it's gotten us excited all over again. So, what's your destination station? Here's mine!
TOP TEN: TRAVEL DESTINATIONS
1. The Holy Land. We've already been to Aggieland...I'm talking about the "other" holyland. My parents went several years back and that got Scott and I thinking. To see the Bible come alive would be just, well, amazing.
2. Greece. I'm a bit of a history buff (compliments of my history teacher Mom) and Greece just oozes that stuff. Someday.
3. Ireland/Scotland/England. My family roots are part English, so going there would be a great way to connect to my ancestry.
4. China. After watching the Olympics (all 20+ days), I became intrigued about this country that has so much history, so much tradition. And, who wouldn't want to see the Great Wall of China?
5. Russia. Or, if you're a child of the 80s, the USSR. I know they're a land of sub-zero winters, great gymnasts and the KGB - but I would love to discover more. Much of what happens in Russia seems to be such a secret, but we've visited with folks who have been and their stories are amazing.
6. Argentina. Growing up in the Texas panhandle, we had some family friends from Argentina. They spoke about their homeland with such affection that it made an impact on me as a kid. And, that history factor has me wanting to visit.
7. Germany. While I worked at FFA, we had a soft-spoken speaker, Gerda Klein, who reflected on her time in a concentration camp. It was life-changing to hear her witness. It doesn't seem possible that humanity can be that cruel, but then I think of Rwanda and Darfur and know differently. My great-grandmother was a good German woman and I often wonder how our family might have been affected had we been in Germany then.
8. Switzerland. Ah, the land of peacemakers, great watches and stellar snow skiing. Matt Lauer went there on one of his "Where in the world is Matt Lauer" and I've been intrigued ever since.
9. Australia. Oh my, the land down under. Scott and I were all set to go there for the honeymoon and then realized because of the Olympics going on at the same time, all flights headed that direction were booked. Major bummer. We're going to get there, that's a promise.
10. Egypt. Talk about some serious history; we're talking B.C. people. Doesn't that just amaze you? B.C. I'd probably have to take my own stash of food. As willing as I am to jump on a plane, the thought of diving into food that takes a leap of faith...well, let's just say I'm not quite as adventurous.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Field Trip!
If you've ever zipped by the blinking light on I-35, just south of Georgetown and thought to yourself, that Inner Space Cavern is such a tourist trap...I'm here to tell you that you're wrong.Yeah, they have the tacky gift shop at the conclusion of the tour, the overpriced snack bar and the sometimes cheesy tour guides. BUT, this cave is the real deal. And for 44 second-graders, it was the bomb. Admittedly, lots of us old folks thought it was pretty cool too (except for the bat factor - those thinks fuh-reak me out). Scott was super dad and stayed home to watch the other three, while I got to enjoy the day with Will. What a fun day.
The hole where the highway workers drilled...they finally lowered a guy down the hole to see why the drill bit kept falling off. Wonder how that all went down. "Hey, Larry, I'll give you 50-bucks to go down that hole."
Straw Alley. Each of these guys grows an inch...every 100 years!
Mining for gems. We had about the same luck we did when we mined for diamonds on the Arkansas family vacation!
Monday, February 16, 2009
What a fun weekend
I hope yours was full of the same.
Saturday night, Scott and I gave our kids kisses and hugs and said "good luck" to the babysitter and headed over to the school's gala, the St. Valentine Soiree. We got all dressed up, chatted with friends, ate great food and even snuck in a dance to "Amarillo by Morning" by our beloved George Strait. What a fantastic evening.
When we moved back to Texas, we started a little Valentine's tradition with the parentals, when Daniel moved back he joined the fun, then we added wife Amanda and this year, we added our super-fun cousins. Our Sunday gathering is always a great dinner (the salmon rocked, Dad) with lots of laughs and good family time. Holly, that dessert was...wow. We need the recipe. Maybe I'll post it on the blog!!
Today, we're enjoying NO SCHOOL - that's right, we're just now getting ready to eat breakfast and I'm enjoying my sweat pants. Doesn't get any better than that. It's a busy week, as usual, but I'm thankful that it gets to start like this!
Saturday night, Scott and I gave our kids kisses and hugs and said "good luck" to the babysitter and headed over to the school's gala, the St. Valentine Soiree. We got all dressed up, chatted with friends, ate great food and even snuck in a dance to "Amarillo by Morning" by our beloved George Strait. What a fantastic evening.
When we moved back to Texas, we started a little Valentine's tradition with the parentals, when Daniel moved back he joined the fun, then we added wife Amanda and this year, we added our super-fun cousins. Our Sunday gathering is always a great dinner (the salmon rocked, Dad) with lots of laughs and good family time. Holly, that dessert was...wow. We need the recipe. Maybe I'll post it on the blog!!
Today, we're enjoying NO SCHOOL - that's right, we're just now getting ready to eat breakfast and I'm enjoying my sweat pants. Doesn't get any better than that. It's a busy week, as usual, but I'm thankful that it gets to start like this!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Happy Love Day!
From our house to yours, have a great Valentine's Day. And, if you're curious who this famed saint really is (yes it's actually St. Valentine's Feast Day) click here. I'm always fascinated when a secular holiday has religious meaning - don't they all? Sometimes I think the love translation gets lost in our commercialized, dozen rozes, box of chocolates holiday. Today is about showing love to the people in your life who deserve it, and to those who don't.We're off to a basketball game (we only have 3 more!) and to enjoy a great date night, compliments of Will's school, at the St. Valentine's Soiree. Make it a great Saturday!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
I deserved that.
I just had to say the "super" thing and God was sure to show me He has a sense of humor. I hestitate to say it was a bad mom day, the kids were at Parents' Day Out until 12:30. And, I got to have lunch with my mom and Clare. Not bad. Naps were pretty good. The venture to get Will from school, totally normal. Even the playing outside and dinnertime went relatively well.
But, boy, at 6:30, the wheels fell off. Actually, strike that. They came flying off. So, I ended up putting 4 kids to bed, all screaming. That was fun. The boys didn't even get a bath. I hate days like this. It stinks when a perfectly happy, normal, totally average day turns into the third ring of you-know-where with 30 minutes and counting before bed.
The really stinky part? I can't blame it all on the kids. I was tired and just wanted to sit on the couch, watch Grey's and ER, eat some ice cream and wait for Scott to get home from his late-night meeting. Is that too much to ask? No, I know it's not. But, in moments like that, I realize I need to give myself a timeout and ask for some divine intervention. Then, I can tackle the last 30 minutes with a bit more grace, understanding and compassion.
So, here's to tomorrow...and to helping my 4 screaming kids get a good night's sleep.
But, boy, at 6:30, the wheels fell off. Actually, strike that. They came flying off. So, I ended up putting 4 kids to bed, all screaming. That was fun. The boys didn't even get a bath. I hate days like this. It stinks when a perfectly happy, normal, totally average day turns into the third ring of you-know-where with 30 minutes and counting before bed.
The really stinky part? I can't blame it all on the kids. I was tired and just wanted to sit on the couch, watch Grey's and ER, eat some ice cream and wait for Scott to get home from his late-night meeting. Is that too much to ask? No, I know it's not. But, in moments like that, I realize I need to give myself a timeout and ask for some divine intervention. Then, I can tackle the last 30 minutes with a bit more grace, understanding and compassion.
So, here's to tomorrow...and to helping my 4 screaming kids get a good night's sleep.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Top Ten: WWSD? (What Would Supermom Do?)
I don't know!! There are days I feel like a supermom, other days...well, I feel like CPS could be knocking at my door any moment. I have no doubt every mom I know feels the same.
God has blessed me with many superwomen in my life - some shepherd a flock of 11 and some a flock of 1. Either way, they're all super in my book. They've taught me many lessons. Some advice I've been too stubborn to heed and learned the hard way. I'd like to share some of that sage advice with each of you.
TOP TEN: WWSD?
1. When you need to make a really, really important phone call, lock yourself in a closet or in the van in the garage.
2. Sometimes it's ok to send the kids to school with a processed, pre-packaged lunch with everything you swore you wouldn't feed them. They'll think it's awesome and you can make the Rachel Ray lunch another day.
3. If you just pick up your house and open a bottle of PineSol for 15 minutes, people will think you clean all the time. I mean, not that I've done that...
4. Sleep when the baby sleeps. Seriously. And, if that means you put on Backyardigans for 30 minutes for the older ones, so be it.
5. Find a day for laundry and do it the same day every week. You'll at least feel like you're getting something accomplished.
6. It's a given. If you say something the kids aren't supposed to hear, they hear. And they repeat it. At the most inappropriate time.
7. If you have to choose between bed and facebook, choose bed. You'll thank yourself the next morning at 0530. The "25 Random Things" posts will still be there tomorrow.
8. Make it a priority to limit your kids to one activity at a time, no matter how many children live under your roof. Your gas bill, your sanity and your child will thank you. There's nothing wrong with sending a "bored" child out the back door with strict instructions to have fun. They'll figure something out...
9. Kids crave routine. They need it to feel safe. Doesn't mean you have to be all OCD on them, but structure will make your life as a mom, I dare say, enjoyable.
10. Read to your kids - a lot. Pray with your kids, even more. Show them what it means to be a child of God. We could all learn a lesson from that playbook.
God has blessed me with many superwomen in my life - some shepherd a flock of 11 and some a flock of 1. Either way, they're all super in my book. They've taught me many lessons. Some advice I've been too stubborn to heed and learned the hard way. I'd like to share some of that sage advice with each of you.
TOP TEN: WWSD?
1. When you need to make a really, really important phone call, lock yourself in a closet or in the van in the garage.
2. Sometimes it's ok to send the kids to school with a processed, pre-packaged lunch with everything you swore you wouldn't feed them. They'll think it's awesome and you can make the Rachel Ray lunch another day.
3. If you just pick up your house and open a bottle of PineSol for 15 minutes, people will think you clean all the time. I mean, not that I've done that...
4. Sleep when the baby sleeps. Seriously. And, if that means you put on Backyardigans for 30 minutes for the older ones, so be it.
5. Find a day for laundry and do it the same day every week. You'll at least feel like you're getting something accomplished.
6. It's a given. If you say something the kids aren't supposed to hear, they hear. And they repeat it. At the most inappropriate time.
7. If you have to choose between bed and facebook, choose bed. You'll thank yourself the next morning at 0530. The "25 Random Things" posts will still be there tomorrow.
8. Make it a priority to limit your kids to one activity at a time, no matter how many children live under your roof. Your gas bill, your sanity and your child will thank you. There's nothing wrong with sending a "bored" child out the back door with strict instructions to have fun. They'll figure something out...
9. Kids crave routine. They need it to feel safe. Doesn't mean you have to be all OCD on them, but structure will make your life as a mom, I dare say, enjoyable.
10. Read to your kids - a lot. Pray with your kids, even more. Show them what it means to be a child of God. We could all learn a lesson from that playbook.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Clare Bear - belated update!
While the blog didn't recognize the 18- and 19-month marks, they didn't go unnoticed around here. Clare has really grown into her own the past couple of months.
At 18, she was walking quite well, manuevering steps and using a fork like a pro. She definitely takes possession of what's hers (or what she wants) and stands her ground. It's part of the 4th child DNA, I think. She has this cute little personality and ducks her chin when she gets embarrassed. Seriously, kids should not be this cute.
Her second Christmas was way more fun than the first (see picture for proof). And, she's taken a new interest in dancing. Anytime she hears music - Mass, car, TV, toy - she starts shaking her hips and bouncing her knees. We have a new family song that starts the dance, but if I post it, I promise it will get lost in translation. That, and you'll think we have way too much time on our hands.
Clare Bear, you're a total joy. You make us laugh, you give great kisses and squeezes and you make my heart pound a little faster. There just aren't enough kisses in the world to bestow upon you. We love you munchkin.
At 18, she was walking quite well, manuevering steps and using a fork like a pro. She definitely takes possession of what's hers (or what she wants) and stands her ground. It's part of the 4th child DNA, I think. She has this cute little personality and ducks her chin when she gets embarrassed. Seriously, kids should not be this cute.
Her second Christmas was way more fun than the first (see picture for proof). And, she's taken a new interest in dancing. Anytime she hears music - Mass, car, TV, toy - she starts shaking her hips and bouncing her knees. We have a new family song that starts the dance, but if I post it, I promise it will get lost in translation. That, and you'll think we have way too much time on our hands.
At 19, she's discovered the thrill of climbing (sidenote: NONE of my children were into this, but Clare has broken the mold.) Just yesterday, I heard the chair moving which is my signal to high tail it to wherever she may be. When I got there, she was standing on the kitchen table. Yep, just standing there, DANCING and screeching. Obviously I wasn't fast enough. I've gotta start working out. We joked early on that she was the female version of John Paul. Be careful what you joke about folks.
My favorite thing about this age is definitely the talking. She's like a parrot. Most van rides, I hear this conversation between the girls:
ALG: Clare, say nose.
Clare: Nose.
ALG: Say, Sisty.
Clare: Sissee.
ALG: Clare, shake your booty.
Clare: (dancing)
Clearly, she understands way more than we give her credit for...
Clare Bear, you're a total joy. You make us laugh, you give great kisses and squeezes and you make my heart pound a little faster. There just aren't enough kisses in the world to bestow upon you. We love you munchkin.Friday, February 6, 2009
The Dark Knight Parties
Yes, TWO weeks ago we celebrated the big day for John Paul. Can you tell I'm behind in the photo department? He started talking about this year's birthday party exactly two days after his birthday last year - no lie. The kid has obsessed about his party. Gee, wonder where he gets that from. Weird.
Anyhoo, the black-caped crusader invaded our house and the kids had a blast. We made bat planes (which I thought they would love because they could decorate them...silly me, these are BOYS, we had planes flying all over the house), played Bat Collector outside and did a little "Riddler" clue game that led us to cake and ice cream sandwiches. John Paul loved being the center of attention and I stood in disbelief that his funny self would be in Kindergarten this fall. Oh, and in case you're wondering, we've already started talking about next year's party...The Joker. We'll see how it all pans out. Mom still has 3 more parties to go before summer!!
As a sidenote, I just have to say, I love birthdays. I've never understood why other people don't feel the same. It's the day you started life people, what's not to celebrate??!! So, without further adieu, proof of the fun...
Getting "happy birthday's" from Uncle Cory & Aunt Jennifer
Oh, and lest you think I skimped on the QOTW this week, here it is:
"Mom, I'm so lucky I get to have TWO parties this year!"John Paul, commenting on how he celebrated at school, on his actual birthday, and on Saturday at the Batman party.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
2, 4, 6...
Just a quick (and it does seem just a short time ago, doesn't it) 3 years ago, my brother got hitched...to a pretty cool sister-in-law. There is lots to love about these two. I hope you enjoy your big day and here's to many, many more happy days.
TOP TEN: BEST MOMENTS FROM THE WEDDING
1. The hair appointments. Amanda's other bridesmaids brought mimosas. Score.
2. Seeing so many family members - old, new and everything in between.
3. Praying with the girls before the ceremony.
4. Seeing my brother's weepy eyes. He's always been the sensitive type. Amanda is a lucky gal.
5. Watching Will fall asleep during the homily.
6. The mad dash for pictures after the ceremony. We tried so hard to get John Paul and ALG there, but to no avail. We did grab a cute one at the reception...don't we all look coordinated?
7. Dancing with my Papa.
8. Praying over the happy couple at the reception. That was awesome.
9. The laughs reminiscing with family. Sometimes, I think weddings are more of a blast for those that aren't getting married!! We gathered together at the hotel afterward, ordered pizza, drank beer and chatted into the wee hours. It was fantastic.
10. Seeing my brother so happy.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY YOU TWO!!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
It's the little things
Last week, I was shlepping outside to take out the trash, but just as I turned to head back into the house, I looked up and saw this. Who knew taking a poopy diaper to the trashman could be so beautiful?
Monday, February 2, 2009
Fun-filled Saturday
We had a really fun Saturday (more on all the festivities later), but to tide you over, look who was in the Statesman this weekend! Nevermind that cute girl signing her name, look who's standing behind her :-)
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